Memorable Money Words from Daddy
A Musical Tribute to our Fathers on their Day
Whether we want it or not, we always get advice from our
parents, especially our mothers. It may be about boys and relationships, life
and career or home and money, but it’s always given in love; no matter how it’s
given to us. It’s interesting how as we get older, we do indeed get wiser. As
we grow, most of us are fortunate enough to receive words of wisdom from those
who have “been there, done that” before we did.
If you’re a Daddy’s Girl, like me, then you also got MORE
than your fair share of advice from your biggest cheerleader and cupcake:
Daddy!! I thank God that I’m still able to get advice from him, as well as
anything else, and he would not have it any other way. So, in a tribute to Black
Music Month and our fathers on Father’s Day, let’s examine what advice he’s
shared (with sprinkles of Motherly advice), through their words or actions,
with us through the years. This month is entitled…”Daddy’s Little
Frugal Girls.”
I’m partial to girl groups from the 50s/60s (they are my
absolute FAVORITE) so that’s whom I’m highlighting in music. It’s because of
the legacy of groups like The Shirelles, The Chiffons, The Cookies and The
Honey Cone that we continue to see great groups in this lifetime like En Vogue,
Brownstone, Xscape and SWV, as well as solo artists like Mary J, Fantasia, and
Lauryn Hill. I love music and could go on an on, but the point is, those early
groups paved the way, showing class while sharing their gifted harmonies with us.
Daddy (and Mom)
said: “Pay What You Owe”
Mama said There’d be Days like
This…The Shirelles
I know this song was really about love and relationships,
but based on my Mom and Dad’s actions, it was a lesson for me in finances. I
didn’t know much about my parents’ financial business until I was grown, so
when I learned, I realized my parents had and still have two very different
money styles. My Mom was adamant about paying bills and paying them on time.
Even if that meant she spent all her money on them and scaled back the rest of
the month; the important things were addressed and checked off her list.
I am proud she passed this trait of integrity on to me to
pay what I owe. I’m even more elated that I bestowed that gift to my own
daughter. Even though there may be some days of financial scarcity, it’s
honorable and proper to promptly pay your debts. I took it further because I
make it my mission to be and stay debt free.
Even though his style is a little different, Daddy still
paid what he owed. As my Deacon Daddy, he truly believes in Romans 13:8, of
owing NO man. I always saw that when he did owe, he paid them back swiftly.
He never wanted it to be said that he didn’t pay his way or earn his place. In
fact, sometimes he even went overheard sharing more than he should, but you’ll
never hear anyone call him cheap. That's not his way.
I learned that if you ever have the chance to do for someone
else, do it. I think it’s the Pisces in us, but this is exactly how we’re
alike, so it’s no doubt he shared that part of his DNA with me. The moral here
is to 1) pay your bills, 2) don’t overextend yourself and 3) be generous.
Paying what you owe speaks volumes about your character and shows people
how much they can trust you. If you can’t pay something, make an arrangement
and stick to it. It’s your word that is bond and people have the right to hold
you to it.
SUMMER FUN!!
In addition to Daddy Tips, I’m going to be sharing some
summer activities for you and your family!! School is already out for many
students, so if you haven’t already signed up, get registered for FREE BOWLING for the kids!! It’s all summer long!!
Until next time, have a great week!!
Frugalicious Diva
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