Showing posts with label weekly motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label weekly motivation. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

The Frugal Files: Finding our Motivating Mantras


“People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing- that’s why we recommend it daily.”
~Zig Ziglar

Lately, I have been lacking the motivation to clear the space and declutter even though there are parts of my life and space that desperately need it.

True story…my home office desk is usually a mess. No matter how many times I attempt to clear the space, I just end up moving clutter for one side to the other; total paper pushing. Unfortunately, the mess is never contained to the actual desk, but the entire surrounding area. A friend, who I have been assisting with shredding old papers, came by last week. Since she knows paper clutter, she set out to help me with this issue. She found a place for everything and put me to work to address the piles and put away the files.

After it was completed, the entire room looked lighter and it was a refreshing to sit at the desk and not have to fight with other objects for arm space. In addition to the office, she addressed my sellable item clutter, as I had things sprawled all over. I decided to dedicate a closet to those items and once they were put away, I almost immediately received an email for the sale for those specific items. I truly believe decluttering, not only figuratively, but literally cleared the space for the new to come in. Thank you Universe for sending over my friend to set me straight and for getting me the sale.

Here are three ways I want to help you (and help me) to get you motivated and keep you motivated to get the junk out of your life, so that you can welcome what you desire!! You should know by now, it will involve your participation. Don’t worry though; it won’t hurt. It will just require your diligence in repeating a few words, a few times daily; some call them affirmations and I call them motivation!!

ASK FOR HELP
Whether your help is a prayer, a friend, or a licensed professional, call on them. It’s great when we can solve our own problems, but it is acceptable to lean on others for the support and motivation to take on a task. It’s like when you were learning to ride your bike and you needed training wheels. Then even when they came off, you still may have had to have an adult hold on to the back of your bike until you were steady and ready to finally go at it alone. Getting help builds confidence, so use your resources, as you grow stronger. Your personal life, professional life and financial life will thank you.

Affirmation: I attract those that help me reach my goals and I am happy and motivated when I achieve them.

JUST DO IT
This isn’t about Nike, but they had the right idea with this slogan. If you just get started then, motivation will meet you half way. Sometimes we get so caught up in the idea of getting motivated that we don’t trust ourselves to provide it. You don’t have to know how to get started; you don’t have to know how it will finish; you don’t need to repeatedly prepare for the idea of getting started. Just simply start and as you take one step, the next step gets easier and before you know it, your achievement will start to unfold before your very eyes. You can do it!!

Affirmation: I stay motivated and energized when working toward my goals.

HELP SOMEONE ELSE
You’ve heard of the Law of Reciprocity, so set it into motion by being of assistance to someone else. Motivate and help them with their dreams and goals. Not only will you feel good about it, you’re bound to walk away with a motivation to reach toward your own aspirations. In addition to that, you’ve opened the door for someone to step in and assist you. Remember, no good deed goes unrecognized and I promise it will be rewarded.

Affirmation: I am so motivated that others get motivated just by being around me.

This is truly how it works. Ask. Believe. Receive. When you want something better, you have to make room for it in your life. I have been getting unctions for about a week to “Clean it Up”. I believe God has been telling me to do this in all areas of my life and I know it’s specifically because I am in this transitional time in my life. Things are on the verge of happening for me and I have to be ready. Don’t you want to be ready for great things? Listen to that inner voice and move when it says move!! Let’s go for it frugalicious divas!!

Frugalicious Diva

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Weekly Motivation 02.19.12

"I didn't plan on either children or writing. Once I realized that writing satisfied me in some enormous way, I had to make adjustments. The writing was always marginal in terms of time when the children were small. But it was major in terms of my head. I always thought that women could do a lot of things. All the women I knew did nine or ten things at one time. I always understood that women worked, they went to church, they managed their houses, they managed somebody else's houses, they raised their children, they raised somebody else's children, they taught. I wouldn't say it's not hard, but why wouldn't it be?
All important things are hard."
~TONI MORRISON
Essence magazine, Feb. 1998

Sunday, January 29, 2012

Weekly Motivation 01.29.12



"You cannot dream yourself into a character; 
you must hammer and forge yourself one."
  ~James A. Froude








Artwork: Belle-Noir Magazine February 2007 "Re-Invent You" cover
 by Jean "JNESS" Nerestant. To view more of his work, visit www.bbwartbyjness.com 


Want to see your artwork featured with our Weekly Motivation posts? Email us at 
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Sunday, January 22, 2012

Weekly Motivation 01.22.12




"A friend accepts us as we are 
yet helps us to be what we should."  
~Author Unknown


Artwork: Belle-Noir Magazine January 2005 "New Beginnings" cover
 by Jean "JNESS" Nerestant. To view more of his work, visit www.bbwartbyjness.com 

Want to see your artwork featured with our Weekly Motivation posts? Email us at 
editor [at] belle-noir [dot] com for more info.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Weekly Motivation 11.13.11


"Chase down your passion
like it's the last bus of the night.
"
~Terri Guillemets


Sunday, October 23, 2011

Weekly Motivation 10.23.11: A Lesson On Responsibility

Have you been watching Oprah's Life Class on OWN (The Oprah Winfrey Network)? If you have not been, and you have been feeling (like I have for awhile) that you are trying to "figure it all out", then you really should consider tuning in.

While I always learn from watching Oprah Winfrey and her all around fabulosity, Lesson 9 this week slapped me square in the face at a time I needed it most. For the past few weeks, I had been letting the thoughts and actions of everyone around me sour my mood. I was allowing other people's negative energy to creep right into my own soul and marinate. Many tears flowed, many stress headaches ensued, and I was wallowing in a very unhealthy dose of "why me?"

It was watching Lesson 9, entitled "You're Responsible For Your Life" that gave me the reminder that I needed. Especially in hearing the story of Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor and the evolution of her now famous quote, "Please be responsible for the energy you bring into this space." It was a reminder that regardless of the energy that others put off, I, and I alone, am the only person responsible for what I put out into the world. I am always telling the members of the Community Center I work for, "What you put out into the world is what you will get back into the world." As is (unfortunately) often the case with me, however, I was not practicing what I preached.

Between the quote and this clip from another one of my favorite business women, Ms. Paula Deen ("hey y'all!") I was brought to my own personal "aha moment". In the clip, Oprah asks Paula how she went from being a caterer who started with only $200 to having a $20 million dollar enterprise. Paula's answer: "So much of it has to do with God's generosity. I made a commitment to work and [God] blessed it."

Belle-Noir.com blogger and Belle-Noir Magazine writer, the Frugalicious Diva, has made me a believer in affirmations. So, I wanted to share with you the affirmation that I drew from Oprah's Life Class this week as this week's Weekly Motivation. I hope you will try it out and let me know if it is working for you, as it already has been for me.

My affirmation and motivation for this week:
"I accept responsibility for what happens to me and for me."

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Weekly Motivation 08.07.11



True merit, like a river, the deeper it is,
the less noise it makes.

~Edward Frederick Halifax

Sunday, July 31, 2011

Weekly Motivation 07.31.11


He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away.
 ~Raymond Hull




Artwork by Nigel Morgan

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Weekly Motivation 02.27.11


"Know, first, who you are; and then adorn yourself accordingly."
~Epictetus




Photo: Plus Model & Fashion Photographer Velvet D'Amour

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Weekly Motivation 02.20.11


"Beauty - in projection and perceiving - is 99.9% attitude."
~Grey Livingston

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Weekly Motivation 02.06.11


“Coretta, Betty and I had a very special relationship. We were known as 'the widows of.' And we often talked among ourselves about how difficult it was to be 'the widows' - the public expectations of us, our expectations of ourselves and, first and foremost, how to be the best parents to our children without their fathers.”
~ Myrlie Evers-Williams

(Pictured L-R: Dr. Betty Shabazz; Mrs. Coretta Scott King, Mrs. Myrlie Evers-Williams)






Sunday, January 30, 2011

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Weekly Motivation 01.16.11


"Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it.
Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it."

~ Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Weekly Motivation 01.09.11


People grow through experience if they meet life honestly and courageously.
This is how character is built.

~Eleanor Roosevelt, My Day
 
Artwork:"Link of Courage" by Larry Poncho Brown
 

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Weekly Motivation 01.02.11

"We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves.
The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year's Day.
"
~Edith Lovejoy Pierce

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Weekly Motivation 09.19.10

"Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition."
~Timothy Leary


 
 

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Weekly Motivation 09.05.10


Remember, if you’re headed in the wrong direction,
God allows U-turns!
 ~Allison Gappa Bottke

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Weekly Motivation 08.15.10


“Class is an aura of confidence that is being sure
without being cocky.
Class has nothing to do with money.
Class never runs scared.
It is self-discipline and self-knowledge.
It's the sure footedness that comes with having proved
you can meet life.”
~ Ann Landers